nudity isnt my choice

Nudity isn’t my Choice but Stripping isn’t an Option

There are some issues that I do not even feel comfortable writing about, I mean how do I begin writing about nudity? To be honest I have always thought of nudity as a synonym to bedroom. Yeah, it’s synonymous to bedroom or so it ought to be. Women have taken their right to dress what they want too far: exposing as much as they can get away with which has rubbed our touts the wrong way.

Testosterone surge

There is something that every woman should keep in her mind whenever she is choosing what to dress lest the hashtag #Mydressmychoice will become too harsh on them. Men have testosterone hormones that will surge whenever too much is exposed by women and that has contributed to a number of rape cases in our countries. In Kenyan Schools they never teach life skills like how to suppress testosterone in case a woman exposes too much and so most of them have developed very crude ways of dealing with ‘indecently’ dressed women: stripping them naked. The touts are the champions of this movement and the whole country is now busy debating on whether what Embassava touts did is worth it, is it the best remedy? I don’t think so.

Misplaced priorities

Nudity isn't my choiceI am not in support of #Mydressmychoice thing but I know that stripping a woman naked because she has dressed in a sexually stimulating manner is not the best option. It should not even be thought of as an option because honestly it will never work. Why are we so concerned about small things that affect us the least? And why are we using double standards in our bid to uphold African culture and restore decency in our dressing styles? I am an artist and I tell you that most of our top male artists shag their trousers until their bruised buttocks are exposed and nobody cares, why can’t they be stripped? Why do we strip women only? I know the answer, this is simply because they are defenseless and will only rely on sympathy of the touts unlike men who can through blows and kicks in defense.

Secondly, Nairobi is a place where a robber will order you to give him your phone Maliza ulete so they say, you will give him the phone and walk away in broad day light under the very eyes of the self-proclaimed African culture loyalists in the name of touts-Some of them are thieves, they nearly robbed me at Machakos buspark. Why can’t they deal with the robbers the same way they deal with our ‘indecently’ dressed ladies? To make matters worse there is no set standard of dressing in Kenya therefore what I might term as indecent may not be indecent to you.

#Nudityisntmychoice but we need to appreciate that we have different tastes in everything we do and like some wise men once said, a one man’s meat may be another man’s poison. We should find other avenues of dealing with this problem since when you strip a woman naked, you are not only encroaching her rights but also stripping her dignity and ripping her individuality apart. keep in mind we have sisters and mothers who dress the same way and we will be least pleased to have them accorded the same treatment.

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8 thoughts on “Nudity isn’t my Choice but Stripping isn’t an Option”

    1. Jeremy I am not supporting their dressing code but we have matters more demanding we can deal with. matters priority plus stripping them only exposes them more in front of our innocent kids.

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  1. @georgeagak i totally agree with you coz even me i disagree with the way our rude and careless mannerless touts treat our ladies as if they take law into their own hands.#mydressmychoice should only make sence and solve this issue if only our ladies realize that decency is paramount as much as they dont want other people to dictate for them on what to wear.What is our society teaching our young children about decency?

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  2. Thanks #Sam for your wise thoughts. I feel there is more to be done maybe a law to guide how people should dress but leaving our women in the hands of touts is too bad. what will become of their little remaining dignity?

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  3. hi George, nice article you got here but i’ve got an editting suggestion for you; take down that pic of the stripped lady, as much as we try fight for their right and dignity, putting someones photo without even blurring her face to me is not respecting her dignity. Just a suggestion.

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    1. Hello thanks for such a suggestion its a mistake I made and unfortunately the article has been shared a lot. I am going to take it down though. thanks again for your kind suggestion.

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